My Best Friend Who Taught Me How to Live Life

“Joan Knutson,” just saying her name brings a smile to my face. When we were babies, our families lived next door to each other in Fullerton. So I guess we started playing together as toddlers.

We moved to Anaheim when I was 2 and her family moved to the far end of town. I remember Mrs.Knutson bringing Joan over to play. Joan lived an adventurous life! She had a wild imagination! It was during the war so we were searching for Nazis a lot of the time. Now you have to understand, I played alone most of the time and only read about adventures. I was a very cautious child. 

There was an old barn next door and naturally I never went near it but Joan just knew we had to

explore it. We peaked through the cobwebs hanging from the open window and I remember the fear in the pit of my stomach but Joan spotted something in the corner, partially covered with an old dirty tarp. Joan was inside before I could say “no, we aren’t allowed!” I was scared but followed her inside. She pulled back the tarp to reveal a rusty old bike with flat tires. She thought it was great and knew I had never had a bike.

We ran home and she talked to my dad, saying how he could fix it up for me. And she would teach me how to ride. Nothing was impossible for Joan. Well, that’s exactly what happened. The neighbor was happy to get rid of the old bike and my dad painted it, sprayed silver paint on the handlebars, added a basket and bell. It was beautiful to me! And Joan and her brother taught a scared 10 year old how to ride. I’ll never forget that exhilarating feeling of the wind in my face as I suddenly realized no one was holding the bike anymore!

There were many adventures with Joan but I want to share one more story. We grew apart as teens but always sent Xmas cards and wrote little notes, keeping in touch even after we got married.

One summer Blaine and I and our four kids rented a place in San Diego for a week. I phoned Joan and

asked if we could meet up. I hadn’t seen her since we were kids. Joan and Chuck and their 8 kids arrived for our little beach party. The kids became friends and we talked and laughed for hours.

Later, Joan and I with a few kids tagging along, went for a walk on the beach walk. We came to a
house with a lovely Christmas tree all decorated and with twinkling lights in the front window. Mind you, this was July. I saw that look in Joan’s face and sure enough, she wanted to knock on the door and find out why there was a tree. Never in a thousand years would I be that bold and bother people I didn’t know. But up the steps Joan went with all the kids trailing behind her. I stood back waiting for the rejection I expected. But the door opens and a sweet old lady invited all of us in and gave us cookies. She said she was never lonely at Christmas so her son suggested she have Christmas all year long.
 
It pleased her so much we came. I realized how much in life you miss by being overly cautious. How I miss Joan but will always have these wonderful memories to remind me to seize the day and all it brings.

2 thoughts on “My Best Friend Who Taught Me How to Live Life

  1. Jodi Koch

    Love that you shared this! Thank you for always inspiring others as we travel on our journey called LIFE!

    Reply
  2. Amber

    Grandma this is absolutely gorgeous! Such a deep reminder to meet life to its fullest. Sending you lots of love, miss you so much and enjoying your writings and creations!!!

    Reply

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